DECLUTTERING CAN BE THERAPEUTIC
Have
you ever wondered how energised and alive spring cleaning can make you feel. Letting
things go that were occupying space not only your cupboard but your mind as
well. It is both therapeutic and purifying at the same time. A cluttered home
spreads negativity around us and clutter free home is a happy home. Decluttering
is not mere cleaning but is the beginning of change and reorganization in our
lives.
Our possessions affect our emotions, they dictate us in a
way. Those little unwanted items in our cupboards control us and anchor us to
our past. Decluttering our homes can help us to move on from – past relationships,
old jobs, ideas that did not work. Sometimes it’s an opportunity to reconsider
old forgotten things, hobbies, plans etc.
Decluttering can be challenging and sometimes we actually end
up without the real clean up. Thinking- That dress is so cute.... awww dat was
a gift from my father...... I only bought it last summer.... this is so
expensive....I like this color ...... I shoudn’t be throwing this away....
But “Be Ruthless” is what Milly Johnson’s “A Spring Affair”
teaches us about decluttering. A spring affair is a story about Lou a woman who
started clearing up her home and then moved on to clearing out her life. It emphasises the importance of decluttering and how therapeutic it can be. While by
reorganizing and redefining your house you actually clear out your mind as well
as your life.
Anything you own should be life-enhancing in some way. It
should make you feel good and spread positivity round you. It should define you
make you feel happy and not drain away your energies. There is nothing wrong with a little bit of sentimentality but holding on to everything can sometimes hold us back from moving ahead and growing in life. Ask yourself, “have I used it in the last six months and will
I use it in future?” If the answer is no then throw it away without any second
glance.
Start small where there's little attachment. It's easier to
get rid of old newspapers and socks than an inherited ornament or a wedding
dress. Be systematic and patient. Don't expect to be clutter-free overnight. Listen to
your gut and be honest with yourself. As the saying goes 'If in doubt, throw it
out'.
Breda, the author of Declutter Therapy says decluttering is a
therapeutic process that offers many holistic and practical benefits, it helps
us to cut ties with the past, accept the present and create space for the
future -- physically, mentally and emotionally.
Our homes are often filled with very useful things. You can lessen
any guilt of throwing away your valuables by donating to charity or recycle
bins or even putting some garage sale. You can't change the fact that you've
spent the money but it's healthy to let someone else enjoy these items. Someone
else may need it more than you, will make you feel better. This whole process
of getting unwanted things out of your life and making space for future is
therapeutic.
Clear your house and clear your mind. Don’t let your life’s
clutter dictate you. Throw it away and take back the control. Happy Spring
Cleaning J
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